Not Underwear: 10 Unique Ways To Please Your Girlfriend On A Budget

With the rise of Artificial Intelligence (AI) and Generation Z changing the dynamics of courtship, dating and relationships, one has plenty of information available to win over the woman of their dreams without having to go to extreme lengths.

On Monday, April 24, reports emerged of a 19-year-old man who was caught allegedly stealing women's underwear in Tegeyat village, Mosop sub-county, Nandi County following a series of mysterious disappearances of female inner garments reported in the area.

The report sparked varied reactions on social media, but some users believed that this added to the growing demands from modern-day women in terms of being pleased by their boyfriends and husbands.

However, with the chances of the cost of living going down in the country fading away by the day, current relationships don't really need you to have a huge wallet to show the woman you like that you care about her.

When it comes to knowing how to please your woman, the first thing most men look at is their bank accounts, worried that first off, they don't have enough money to keep their woman happy and that countless information alleges how a woman is naturally expensive to sustain for a man in a relationship due to, as aforementioned, their demands.

Of course, there are such women who equate love with expensive gifts and trips, but it’s not most, or all of them.

Viral Tea consulted popular AI platform ChatGPT as well as other relationship websites and came up with 10 simple ways to please your woman without breaking the bank:

Listen

This is the cheapest way of impressing your girlfriend as not only is it free, but it also requires you to simply pay attention to her when she is talking to you. 

She merely requires a partner who engages in conversation with her, to confide in and trust, and not someone with tens of thousands of shillings. By actively listening to her, you take note of her interests, dreams, and what she likes and doesn't like, and you can use them to plan date ideas between the two of you.

Picnics & Romantic Dinner At Home

With the clamour for the revival of recreational spaces and parks across the country, especially in major cities, it presents you with an opportunity to pack a picnic lunch for you and your girlfriend and head to a nearby park during the weekend for a relaxing and romantic afternoon together.

For those who may have crazy work schedules, however, cooking a delicious meal at home for dinner is an alternative, and you can spice up the mood with candles, soft music and a nice table setting.

Watch a Movie At Home

The popularity that has come with movie streaming and downloading has offered a cheaper alternative for movie nights compared to one at a cinema, and one has plenty of choices to choose from, even from movies and series newly released on streaming platforms such as Netflix.

This, therefore, means that you can create a cosy atmosphere by watching a movie at home with your girlfriend. You can make popcorn or a meal and cuddle together on the couch or bed if living in a bedsitter.

Give Her a Genuine Digital Compliment, Love Letter

You don’t need to compliment her every five seconds to please her, lest she will know when your compliments are fake.

When you feel she looks really beautiful, tell her. If you love the new dress she bought, tell her. Don’t be afraid to give a real compliment when you feel it inside of you.

In addition, a heartfelt love letter can be a meaningful and affordable way to express your love and appreciation for your girlfriend.

In the digital era, it is easier for you to send her that love letter through her Direct Messages (DMs) on social media or through WhatsApp and not have to wait until you meet in person.

Take a walk together

You can take a romantic stroll together in a nearby park or along a scenic trail. You can also take a walk around your residence or hers, whichever either of you goes to.

Walks offer a perfect time for you to connect with each other as well as talk about various stuff, and in case one runs out of ideas, he or she can pick an environment situation as a topic of discussion.

Show Her Affection and A Bit Of PDA (Public Display of Affection)

Like any other relationship, sometimes we forget how much our partners do for us. Maybe she’s the one who cooks and cleans around the house, and if so, show her your appreciation by making her dinner one night.

If she is into PDA, hold her hand and/or give her the occasional kiss on the cheek.

Small Research About What She Likes In Bed

Showing you her care and loving her is one thing. Another way to please her is in the bedroom.

With more open conversations about sex emerging, it's no surprise if she happens to drop a hint about what she likes in the bedroom. This now offers you a chance to do research about it and figure out what she really enjoys.

If there's a sex position she enjoys, look up new techniques to help her achieve an orgasm.

Point To Note

Remember, the most important thing is to show your girlfriend that you care and appreciate her. It's not always about spending money, but rather about the time and effort you put into making her feel loved and valued.

"No, stealing underwear is illegal and unethical, regardless of the reason. It is not an acceptable way to please anyone, including a girlfriend. Relationships should be based on mutual trust and respect, and stealing violates both of these principles.

"If you want to make your girlfriend happy, there are plenty of other ways to do so that are legal, ethical, and respectful. It's important to prioritize honesty and integrity in your actions and relationships," ChatGPT responded to a query by Viral Tea.